How To Have Spiritual Sex
Anna Pink
Freelance Writer
Anna is a freelance writer who has been writing for Psychic Network since 2022.
Sex is a core physical and immersive function that plays an important role in your body's health, vitality and wellbeing. Although some people may view the sexual act as being dirty, forbidden, or wrong, it's actually a sacred experience of pure cosmic energy that can make you feel connected to the universal power of Source.
The experience of sex
For centuries, in many cultures, sexuality was a respected and sacred expression of life force, and a physical practice that opens up a pathway towards living a more spiritual life. In modern society however, sex has become an objectification of form that's completely externally focused.
Having NSA one-night stands, sex that's animalistic and lacking in emotional intimacy, or getting your sexual kicks from watching porn or daydreaming about sexual fantasies, will disconnect you from experiencing sacred spiritual sex that's in the moment, and in true communion with your soul.
Sex is an important part of who we are as unique human beings. When you're fully engaged in sex, the life force that exists within you flows freely and expands to connect and merge with the energy of the Universe. Your sexual orgasm, which is an expression of transcendental energy that extends beyond the physical body, will be an explosive experience that is free of limitation and definition.
In other words, if you want to enjoy better sex, it's definitely worth exploring spiritual union.
Divine unions
There are three types of divine spiritual union that promise a profound mystical experience :-
1. Alert union
The first time that you have sex with a new partner can awaken the potent Source energy within you, provided that the intimate connection stimulates the mind, body and senses, and you're willing to experience vulnerability. If you're just interested in having a quickie or a casual NSA experience, you're unlikely to experience sex that's truly spiritual.
2. Conscious union
A conscious sexual union is all about cultivating a balance between pleasure, passion and intimacy with your partner. There are plenty of gentle caresses, eye-to-eye contact, and intense and open sexual expression in a union that's conscious.
3. Soulful union
In traditional Tantric practices, soulful union teaches you how to embody your true divinity. When you're sexually entwined with your partner, your body, soul and spirit will be tingling in an orgasmic alchemical fusion that is spiritually illuminating.
Spiritual sex life tips
Because spiritual sex enhances intimacy, connection and union, it's a divine practice that's best experienced in a loving relationship. You can also benefit from spiritual sexual self-discovery, if you're single and exploring solo.
It's recommended to try celibacy for a while, before embarking on spiritual sex. Abstaining from sex increases the potent power and intensity of your kundalini sexual energy, so that it's easier to channel it and direct it in your body.
- Create the perfect environment for intimacy, by enhancing your space with aphrodisiac fragranced candles or incense, comfortable pillows or cushions, and soft music.
- Take a bath or shower together to cleanse and spiritually prepare your bodies to connect with divine Source.
- Use essential aromatherapy massage oils to anoint each other's body, in a sensual spiritual ritual. Awaken the chakras by gently stroking the oil over the third eye, heart space and genitals.
- Take a moment to meditate together. Close your eyes, clear your minds and connect your hearts. Breathe deeply and release, and repeat six times.
- Sit facing your partner, and take turns in using tantalising touch to awaken the senses, and to heighten the anticipation and excitement for sacred spiritual sex. Avoid touching the erogenous zones.
- Move into the traditional tantric ‘yab-yum' position – one partner sits cross-legged with the other sitting in their lap. This classic tantra position represents the dualistic forms of compassion and wisdom.
- Let your partner know what you love the most about them. Express your feelings openly and authentically.
- Allow your sexual intuition to lead the way. To witness the beauty of sacred sexuality and divine spiritual union, maintain eye contact during sex.
- To fully experience the intensity of the potent sexual energies of spiritual sex, it's essential that you relax and take your time. Allow the power of the orgasmic energy to freely flow through your body. With regular spiritual sex practice, you'll be able to learn how to access and enjoy blissful orgasmic energy without any genital stimulation.
Connecting to Source
A blissful expansion of pleasure is beneficial for shifting and healing stuck emotions and energetic blocks in the body, and will intensify your spiritual connection to Source. The erotic energetic power that surges in your body can also help you discover a deeper sexual awareness, and untapped orgasmic potential that's unlimited.
You can use your unlimited and sensual life force for relaxation and rejuvenation purposes, and for inspiration or creativity. Life will also feel wonderfully richer and more balanced, harmonised and magical, when you're fully spiritually and sexually connected to Source.
